Monday, September 20, 2010

sfebff = super fav ever best friend forever

A while ago, when I watched TV, the Today Show did a segment on women and the benefits of friendship. They talked about how women who have a best friend live longer and are healthier. Last week Ryleigh had to make a poster of the water cycle. She was so super excited to do this project with her best friend Kossian. We wrote a list of things they would need and sent them on a scavenger hunt to find things to use. They had such a good time doing the whole project.

Watching them reminded me of the story on the Today Show and I started to think about the relationships I have in my life. It goes without saying that we marry our best friend but I think its healthy and normal to have a sfebff. Its nice to have someone to do all the things with that our husband cant or doesn't want to do. Like going to lunch and getting a pedi, or jean, purse and shoe shopping. Its nice to have someone to do yoga with and to listen to daily vents, ya know someone who understands girl talk. I don't care how old you are girl time is so very important. Just the other night my sister went out for girl time because her hubby was going out of town for a few days and needed to recharge before he left. My teenage girls need girl time everyday after school to unwind and discuss the events of the day. What boy said hi or who the new hottie is and my nine year old needs girl time at least one night every weekend. They stay up and giggle and do make overs and play pretend...we all need girl time. It makes us happy.
I don't have any idea how I would have done the last two years without my sfebff. There have been many days and nights where I have cried and vented. Where she told me what I needed to hear not what I wanted to hear. I've learned so many things from her and am a better person because of her and the way she loves me. I don't think there is anything she wouldn't do for me and there isn't anything I can't ask her to do or tell her.

I don't know of any rule that says who your sfebff has to be. I think your lucky if your sisters happen to be that for you. In fact I think you're pretty lucky if you have a sfebff. I think that God gave us our best friends to help us get through life. So, here's to girl time, sfebff's and getting through life!


8 comments:

HS @ Our Debt Blog said...

I can only say she's a cute friend LOL

HS

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Anonymous said...

"The West Bank, where the end of the world will begin." This happened 2000 years ago.

Just like the gods:::Change the rules in the middle of the game.
To their advantage, of course.
I've always had respect issues, especially once I understood the Holocaust.
You don't employ a strategy like this when you have to push people into their evil. The only reason why this happened was so you could maintain your schedule for the 20th century.
Fuck you.

7 billion in 2011. Only 1 billion in 1800 and 2 billion in 1900.
Population explosion is a clue::::The gods are sending everyone back for The End.
There must be some purgatory-like place. Or individual. Like an animal.
Now the gods have sent everyone back to try for one final time to fix their problems and ascend into heaven. Avoiding an animal would have been a big positive because those thrust into this decayed enviornment have less of a chance than those who enjoyed the god's generosity of a slowly decaying enviornment with frightening clues, like the Depression, World at War, the Holocaust, etc.
Anything that can get the poeple frightened and praying is a good. thing. Contentment never motivated anyone.

As we approach the Apocalypse the gods are removing "wrath of god" material from xtian dogma.
As we see wickedness spread throughout the country, like preditory behavior, godlessness, social changes, etc, using cable TV and the spread of "Californication" as justification, they changed xtianity, appropriatly with Catholicism first.
xtianity has changed radically in the 20th century, and everyone should be mindful of the way it was, because the people are in a process of slipping out of god's favor into a state of Damnation, from which the vast majority will never survive.
They used to scare people and make them too afraid to make mistakes. Now people aren't afraid of anything and don't think twice about doing something wicked and evil which will hurt their chances.

Employment charity:::Was W able to do his job as President?
I suspect there are many frat-boy types who couldn't or wouldn't study nor do the work necessary so they gained this "benefit" telepathically. This could have been extended to their professional life as well::In most of these cases they don't have what it takes to do their jobs. It is temptation which buys their confidence for life, ensuring no progress is made.
I think employment charity is FAR more common than people may believe.
Another example how they tempted people in this manner is the procurement of sexual relations.
Keep raping these poor girls. You're going to end up as one in your next life.

Another feature which the Gods offer as a clue is very foreboading and ominous. Mt. Zion is a mountain to the north of Diablo (the eye of The Beast) and one which has a working quarry at its base. Consistant with the decay we experience in society, Mt. Zion is being eaten away, slowly stripped of its resources, until one day paradise will be gone forever.

If people only understood the importance of good parents. You won't be going anywhere without them. And it won't happen unless you are one first.

Whimsical management=Unstable pathology:::
*Tuscon-waffles
*2006 Hawaii-Jewelry
*Ivan/Wilma-SCUBA

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